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		<title>Shamwow &amp; the Holy Spirit?!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 16:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kande</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My values are like a Shamwow.  You know, the famous “as seen on T.V.” piece of cloth that can dry off an entire boat.  There are many imitators, which if used, can lead to disappointment.  But the real thing, now that’s something special!
My values, much like the Vineyard movement’s, are like the story of the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="left">My values are like a Shamwow.  You know, the famous “as seen on T.V.” piece of cloth that can dry off an entire boat.  There are many imitators, which if used, can lead to disappointment.  But the real thing, now that’s something special!</p>
<p align="left">My values, much like the Vineyard movement’s, are like the story of the Shamwow because the movement is all about making the mysterious real.  It’s our expectation that people would experience the supernatural presence of God like Paul describes in 1 Corinthians 2:4-5 when he says “I did not come to speak with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the spirit and power.”  You see, the Shamwow took off because of an infomercial &#8211; Some crazy guy demonstrating the unreal power of this tiny piece of multi-fiber cloth.  Something caught America’s attention.  Similarly, the Holy Spirit catches our attention and when we yield to Him, he uses us to do something special.</p>
<p align="left">In our consumer driven society cost influences perceived value. If the Shamwow had stopped the infomercial before addressing price, the experience would not have been complete.  It wouldn’t have been the success that it is today. People would have thought that something this special is only for those who could afford it or those who just really like to clean.  But it wasn’t.  The Shamwow wasn’t just for the elites; it was favorably priced for all people at just $19.99.  But God one-upped QVC and the Spike TV Saturday morning infomercials.  God covered the cost and gave the “Shamwow” away for free so that everyone could experience its power.</p>
<p align="left">Vineyard aligns with my values in that there is a shared belief that Christianity isn’t just for the “Religious Winners”. We believe “everyone can play”.  Jesus told Peter “come follow me”.  He didn’t apply spiritual measures.  Jesus didn’t say “follow me if you have it all together.” You see, we’re not just some ordinary towel that still leaves a mess and can’t dry up the water.  We’re something different, something special – we’re a Shamwow. We are able to reach all people because we’ve equipped ourselves to influence people where they are at, and bring them along for the ride.</p>
<p align="left">When I played football at the University of  Cincinnati, I would talk to guys about the faith element of their lives and they’d say “I’ll wait till I get right first.”  God didn’t call us with strings attached; He wants us all to participate in what he has in store for us.  Many people oftentimes feel that they have to be something first.  But God wants us to be who we are and who we are created to be.  Some people were created to use the Shamwow for drying cars, some for boats and some for simple household chores where a paper towel would suffice.  This story is only made real when we are able to share the Gospel, the undiluted Gospel, in practical and relevant ways that reach people who are considered “the missing”.</p>
<p align="left">Vineyard Community  Church has scripted on its building “Small things done with great love can change the world.” There is no value greater than loving God and loving His people. Agape love is not about rules or requirements.  It’s not based upon expectations or conditions.  It is about incorporating love and the leading of the Holy Spirit into everyday life so that real evangelism is based upon being available.</p>
<p align="left">My football history taught me something priceless: success on the field was about community, a shared vision and values despite the wide variety of differences from race, religion, economics or even education.  The Vineyard movement embraces these championship values where God doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.  While no team is perfect, I want to be on a team that embraces the championship mindset and the Vineyard movement has that mindset.</p>
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<p align="left">- Chris Flores, Vineyard Cincinnati leader</p>
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		<title>GO!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 17:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kande</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Go and find the lost. Go serve those who society leaves behind. Go beyond your comfort zone and your own borders. Go and not just talk about, but truly demonstrate, Christ. To the lost. The sick. The broken. The weary. The tired. The one who keeps wanting but is never fulfilled.
“Go!” Boldly and with compassion.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Go and find the lost. Go serve those who society leaves behind. Go beyond your comfort zone and your own borders. Go and not just talk about, but truly demonstrate, Christ. To the lost. The sick. The broken. The weary. The tired. The one who keeps wanting but is never fulfilled.</p>
<p>“Go!” Boldly and with compassion.</p>
<p>Growing up in a UCC church in a small town it always struck me as odd that we would gather in our Sunday best in the church to sing antiquated songs with lyrics like “doth thou thath wrought” and I remember telling my grandpa as we were leaving one Sunday how I didn’t feel any different or know any more walking out of that church than when I walked in. That feeling of sameness bothered me greatly because I had learned early on in Sunday school about a compassionate and powerful Jesus who healed the sick, comforted the grieving and brought people back from death, but yet, this church it didn’t feel “alive” at all. Something was very wrong here. I knew in my heart there had to be more than this. No, this couldn’t be it. To walk in the doors every Sunday at 10:15, smile at the people, parrot some phrases with the congregation, sing some songs and try to stay awake during the sermon while daydreaming which NFL teams were playing on TV later that day.</p>
<p>My world shifted in 2000 when I came upon the Vineyard in Cincinnati. It was an early fall Saturday and I had been using The Vineyard parking lot as a shortcut to get to work. New in town, I was looking for a new church to join and decided if I was going to use their parking lot, I could at least see what they had to offer. To my shock and amazement, when I walked through the doors they had a huge “ServeFest” going on with at least a dozen outreaches, everything from a Coke outreach to a free car wash to a nursing home visitation, even a bathroom cleaning outreach. All to serve the people <em>outside</em> the church walls to let them know God loves them. It was incredible. This&#8230;this is what I had been looking for all my life. This is what I knew Jesus would be about today. This was “Go!”</p>
<p>So how does that snippet of my life fit into the Vineyard core mission? I hope it dovetails nicely. To reach out to people who are broken and heading down the wrong road at a breakneck speed stop so they can experience God to find a more fulfilling, peaceful path. To team up with those who used to want for only for themselves, but now want to serve in the name of something greater than self. To “Go!” and serve in the name of Christ.</p>
<p>Someone once said, “Christianity at its simplest form is one beggar telling another beggar where to find bread”. And through the history of the Vineyard movement and at VCC that’s what we’re all about. Now for sure, with a membership as large as VCC, there are people all over the spectrum in regards of serving. But it’s the culture of service and slipping on the dusty sandals of Christ for even a moment to a stranger, a co-worker or the cashier at a Taco Bell, it’s a force of a million light touches of love to demonstrate to people, sometimes on the worst day of their life, that there is a God, He is alive and well, and He loves you so much he would rather go to Hell alone than to be in Heaven without you.</p>
<p>“Go!” It’s the key core value that started with the Vineyard back from its inception and still holds true today. And it’s not just a suggestion from Christ, but a command, “Go and make fishers of men!” It’s pretty much what drives me to help lead with the LA La Viña outreach and when volunteering for Breathe or any of the other programs VCC puts on to reach out to the lost and serve those who live on “the fringe”.</p>
<p>And the best part is I can leave from any service or outreach at VCC and know I am changed, that I have learned something to put into practice that coming week and the weeks to come. And walk out with an attitude that’s focused on Christ so I can do what He asked us all to do in his name. ”Go!”</p>
<p>- Brian G.</p>
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		<title>Special Delivery</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 19:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kande</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So today after our outreach, 4 of us gathered behind our truck at the Willows to pray. As we are praying we hear the noise of a vehicle approaching us. As I lift my head up I notice it&#8217;s a U.S. Mail truck pulling up to where we are standing. We begin to drop our hands and the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So today after our outreach, 4 of us gathered behind our truck at the Willows to pray. As we are praying we hear the noise of a vehicle approaching us. As I lift my head up I notice it&#8217;s a U.S. Mail truck pulling up to where we are standing. We begin to drop our hands and the &#8220;mail lady&#8221;, Judy, says &#8221;oh don&#8217;t stop praying, I would like to join you.&#8221; So Judy joined us in a circle of prayer&#8230;. And I might add Judy gave Lauren an inspirational message on life. The U.S. Mail had a special delivery. It was truly God at work.</p>
<p>So my vision is seeing people in the community around us coming together in circles of prayer. Complete strangers coming together as a branch of the body. &#8211; DP<br />
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		<title>Right Place, Right Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 21:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kande</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Dave,
 
I have been attending the Vineyard for about a year and a half.  I can&#8217;t even begin to express the difference the church and the amazing people who are part of it have made in my life.  I found VCC through a friend shortly after the end of my second marriage, following a couple of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Verdana;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana;">Dear Dave,<br />
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I have been attending the Vineyard for about a year and a half.  I can&#8217;t even begin to express the difference the church and the amazing people who are part of it have made in my life.  I found VCC through a friend shortly after the end of my second marriage, following a couple of very long years living with an alcoholic.<br />
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One of the biggest changes that I have seen in myself is that I have stopped spending so much time thinking about <strong><strong><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">me.</span></span></strong></strong>  I have gotten involved with several of the serving opportunities that VCC offers, but I kept waiting for that chance for God to use me to make a difference.  I read your book and would talk with other people who had been in a situation where they were able to pay for someone else&#8217;s meal, help them carry-in their groceries&#8230;you know what I mean, but I never seemed to be in the right place at the right time.<br />
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Last week, my sister and I were on our way to Good Sam Hospital to visit our mother who was having some heart problems.  My sister was driving and needed to stop for gas.  I was sitting in the passenger seat while she was out pumping the gas when a beat-up old &#8220;boat&#8221; of a car pulled in next to us.  I glanced out my window and noticed that there were blankets and pillows piled on one side of the backseat.  I watched a woman get out of the driver&#8217;s seat and go in to the gas station/convenience store.  After a few minutes, she came storming out ranting about them not allowing her to pay for her gas the way she wanted, that she didn&#8217;t want to pump the gas first, that she was broke and how was she supposed to pay for the gas, etc.  Her language may have been just a bit more colorful. <br />
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I sat there for a minute thinking that I was a little uncomfortable with the hostility that the woman had displayed, but also feeling sympathetic to her situation.  I have certainly been there before!  When my sister got back in the car, I knew that I couldn&#8217;t just let her drive away and leave this woman to deal with her situation without doing anything, so I asked her to hold on a second. <br />
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All I had in my wallet was a $10 dollar bill, but I grabbed it and told my sister I would be right back.  I got out of the car and walked over to the woman just as she was bending over to put the nozzle into her car and reached out my hand.  She hadn&#8217;t seen me coming and I could tell by her jump that I had startled her.  I smiled and put the money into her hand and told her that I couldn&#8217;t help but overhear, and that I had been there, too.  I told her that God loves her, wished His blessings on her and got back into my sister&#8217;s car.<br />
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I don&#8217;t know if that $10 made any difference, but I did see a smile cross her face before we pulled away.<br />
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I thanked God for putting me in the right place, at the right time, and I just wanted to thank you for inspiring in me the courage to step out of my comfort zone to follow His lead.<br />
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K. B.<br />
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		<title>Kiss Dayton Servant Evangelism Fun</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 17:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>stevebowen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kiss Dayton! Servant Evangelism



6 years&#8230; that&#8217;s a long time&#8230;every Valentine season for six years we&#8217;ve Kissed Dayton&#8230;
This year we will have hundreds of small packs of Hershey Kisses, with our You’ve just been Kissed connect card, placed at the exits the weekend leading up to Valentines day. As people leave they will pick up a [...]]]></description>
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<p style="center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_p8Eh7pWs6XA/SYCVX_Ir9AI/AAAAAAAABOQ/kKZ-2k0SJp8/s1600-h/home_valentine_feature.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" style="255px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_p8Eh7pWs6XA/SYCVX_Ir9AI/AAAAAAAABOQ/kKZ-2k0SJp8/s400/home_valentine_feature.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />
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<div style="center;">6 years&#8230; that&#8217;s a long time&#8230;every Valentine season for six years we&#8217;ve Kissed Dayton&#8230;</div>
<div style="center;"><span style="trebuchet ms;"><span style="trebuchet ms;">This year we will have hundreds of small packs of Hershey Kisses, with our <span style="bold;">You’ve just been Kissed</span> connect card, placed at the exits the weekend leading up to Valentines day. As people leave they will pick up a few of the packs and then <span style="italic;">Kiss people</span> they contact during the week.</span></p>
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<p><span style="trebuchet ms;">A couple of years ago I went to the gym on one of my usual gym days. </span> <span style="trebuchet ms;">(My wife tells me it’s a good thing.)</span></p>
<p>When I arrived I asked the receptionist, <span style="italic;">‘Have you been kissed today?’</span> She smiled and said, <span style="italic;">‘Nope, not today.</span>’ I then gave her a pack said, <span style="italic;">‘Well you’ve just been kissed.’</span> She laughed and exclaimed, <span style="italic;">‘You’re from the Vineyard right?’</span> I replied, <span style="italic;">‘Yep. We are kissing people all over the city this week.’</span></p>
<p>On Valentines Day we’ll head out to a couple of strip malls near the Vineyard. We take the packs of kisses, and several buckets of carnations. We pop into the businesses and head to the customer service desk and ask, <span style="italic;">‘How many ladies are working today?’</span></p>
<p>We then count out the flowers and Hershey packs…and say, <span style="italic;">‘We are from the Vineyard and you’ve just been kissed.’ </span></p>
<p>Usually some of the other assistants are around and join in the exchange. Often, a male worker will ask for a carnation for his girlfriend or wife. Some guys say, <span style="italic;">‘Thanks for the reminder.’</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"> </span></p>
<p>Most people are open, curious, laugh and catch the vibe.</p>
<p>One Vineyard group went to a high end Spa/Hair place, all of the working ladies gathered to receive their flower. <span style="italic;">‘Who are you guys?</span> Others exclaim, <span style="italic;">‘This is so cool.’</span> Or sigh, <span style="italic;">‘This will be my only present today.&#8217;</span></p>
<p>Flowers and kisses were also handed out to the ladies who were becoming beautiful-er.</p>
<p><span style="trebuchet ms;">One of the team noticed one of the ladies getting her hair cut didn&#8217;t receive a flower. So being the sensitive, thinking person she is, made an extra special effort to find another team grab a flower and run back to the shop&#8230;when she gave the lady the flower, the surprised and delighted lady exclaimed, <span style="italic;">&#8216;You&#8217;ve just made my day! Thank you.&#8217;</span></span></p>
<p>Really? Made her day? Makes me wonder what one of her days looks like? Makes me wonder if she was ever loved, or had a caring boy friend, or had husband, or is now connected to an uncaring guy?</p>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s in a gift of a small flower and a pack of kisses?</strong></p>
<p><span style="trebuchet ms;">I think serving others in a fun, creative way sends an upbeat message to the people in our stressed out world.</span></p>
<p><span style="trebuchet ms;">Serving others often is a small action that sends a signal that says, <span style="italic;">‘Hey, someone cares for you.’ </span>The action preformed with genuine love somehow touches the heart.</span></p>
<p><span style="trebuchet ms;">My friend Scott, said,<span style="italic;"> <em>‘Agape love revealed…  my love is demonstrated as I serve others through the choices I make, and by the actions I take.’</em> </span></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="trebuchet ms;">Process for Kiss Dayton:</span></strong> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
4 weeks out: have connect cards printed (www.marketplaceprinting)</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
4 weeks out: order Hershey Kisses (snacc foods Cincinnati)</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
4 weeks out: order 4”X4” zip bags (BGR bags West Chester OH)</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
4 weeks out: order boxes of Carnations for pick up (Cleveland Plants and Flowers Dayton)</span><br />
<span style="trebuchet ms;">2 weeks out: have kids or teens pack the bags</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
Week of: have packs placed at all exits</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="trebuchet ms;">Valentine Day Outreach</span></strong> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
3 days out: pick up flowers, cut stems and place in buckets of water so they will be open on the day</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
3 days out: design maps with instructions and contact phone numbers</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
3 days out: make name tags<br />
</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;">3 days out: gather Kiss packs and place in a larger bag or container</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="trebuchet ms;">Day of Valentines Day Outreach</span></strong> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
Gather at 10am</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
Give Instructions: go to shops, go to check out or customer service, ask, How many ladies are working today, count out Kisses packs and flowers give to workers, Say,</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;">‘We’re from the Vineyard and you’ve just been kissed.’ </span> <span style="trebuchet ms;">Also, be open to need and pray with people if <a title="God Space" href="http://http://stevebowen.blogspot.com/2008/07/creating-god-space.html"><strong><em>*God space</em></strong></a> is created.</span></p>
<p><span style="trebuchet ms;">Divide up into teams</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;">Load up and head out.</span> <span style="trebuchet ms;"><br />
After project head to Caribou Coffee, or Starbucks for download and great java.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://stevebowen.blogspot.com"><span style="trebuchet ms;">Steve Bowen</span></a></p>
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		<title>Turkey Call</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 16:22:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kande</dc:creator>
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Turkeyfest turned out to be fantastic.  Our small group had 5 baskets to deliver but we only took 4 names.  We figured, somehow, we would be directed to the fifth family.  We asked the first 4 families if they were aware of a family that really needed help.  We were led to just such a [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">Turkeyfest turned out to be fantastic.  Our small group had 5 baskets to deliver but we only took 4 names.  We figured, somehow, we would be directed to the fifth family.  We asked the first 4 families if they were aware of a family that really needed help.  We were led to just such a family.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">At our next small group meeting, we decided to try to &#8220;adopt&#8221; the family for Christmas. We didn&#8217;t really know what that meant, yet.  We made contact with them and they accepted our offer.  We asked for the children&#8217;s names, and ages and what they might want for Christmas.  We also asked what Mom and Dad might want for Christmas.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">The answers surprised us.  The boys could each use one pair of pants and perhaps one &#8220;learning&#8221; toy.  Mom and Dad said they had <span style="text-decoration: underline;">no</span> needs.  No needs. We were expecting more toy requests or &#8220;fun&#8221; things, but Mom knew exactly what they needed.  Mothers somehow always do.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">We dug a little deeper to find something that Mom could use. An iron and a blender said the father.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">We divided up the list and each member of our group obtained the requests, and we all seemingly added a little bit more.  We called to set up a time to meet with the family and Mom would be available on Tuesday night.  She wanted to know how many of us were coming so she could serve us some coffee.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">During this time period we have, through the generosity of a number of people, started to get some furniture for the family.  The husband of one of our members delivers them bread each week.  I think we found a calling here.</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: x-small; color: #000000; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black; font-family: Arial;">Tonight is the evening we are going to their apartment, to take our small gifts to help to change their world. While the gifts will be helpful to the family , the real gift is that, through the Turkeyfest, we found this family  and I think we will discover that we are the real recipients.</span></span></p>
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		<title>In-Step with the heart of the body of Christ</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 13:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sean Michael Murphy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have an awesome small group! We’ve only  been together since “The Call” series but everyone gets along so well that you  would think we’ve been best friends for years! Everyone is flexible in last  minute get-togethers, fun to be around and serve with, and has a heart for  spiritual growth [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">We have an awesome small group! We’ve only  been together since “The Call” series but everyone gets along so well that you  would think we’ve been best friends for years! Everyone is flexible in last  minute get-togethers, fun to be around and serve with, and has a heart for  spiritual growth and outreach.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">Here’s our story. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">I have a son who was brain injured in a  car accident when he was a toddler. He lives in a nice group home with two  roommates and 24-hour caretakers. About five years ago while at a Christmas  party with him and other physically and mentally challenged adults Bill and I  noticed that not everyone received a gift at the party. However, when another  group home’s name was called for receiving the door prize gifts, the others  clapped with excitement for those that won, even if they didn’t. We wanted to do  something to make sure everyone received a gift at the next party but time got  away from us until this year.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">Last year one of our group members said  that she thought we as a small group should take gifts to my son’s group home.  This year we all took action and decided to collect gently used or new re-gifted  items (nice gifts that were received but not wanted or useful and that may just  be sitting in storage), wrap them and go as elves to give the gifts and serve at  the party. The morning we shared our idea with Dan Henry was the morning the  Vineyard announced their outreach that was similar to ours. It was exciting to  see that our small group was “in-step” with the heart of the whole body of  Christ! </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="center;"><span style="small;"><span style="black;"> </span></span><a href="http://outwardfocusedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/party.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-589 aligncenter" src="http://outwardfocusedlife.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/party-300x228.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="228" /></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">Shortly after Thanksgiving lots of nice  donated items started coming in. Soon our living room, dining room, kitchen and  guest room was so full that I doubted that we could get them all wrapped in one  evening and wondered how we’d ever get our home ready for Christmas with the  “mess”. The evening before the party we set up “wrapping stations” at the  kitchen table, breakfast bar, dinning room table and a folding table in the  living room plus a folding table for our chili dinner before wrapping. Because I  am a planner and one that functions better in an organized environment, the  clutter of wrapping paper, ribbon and boxes and bags of stuff looked  overwhelming. However, seeing how calmly and well everyone was working together  made the task look easy! In less than three hours over 100 gifts were wrapped,  the scraps of paper picked up and folding tables put away with the help of many  hands!</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">I say all this to encourage those who may  think such an outreach is too much when in fact, with God’s people working  together to serve in any way, it becomes a great  blessing!</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">The next evening our small group plus four  other Vineyard volunteers put on our elf and/or Santa hats and served drinks and  dinner to each table. The people were so excited and wanted pictures taken with  us. It is difficult for one or two caretakers to carry drinks and help take each  of those in their care through the food line, especially if they are in  wheelchairs and/or using walkers in the crowded room so they were very happy to  be served! Our volunteers then mingled with and danced with those with  disabilities and helped everyone pick out a stuffed animal from the two tubs  full. There were enough wrapped gifts and stuffed animals and new gloves for  every single person, including the caretakers!</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">It was so much fun to serve these special  people and we are looking forward to doing it again next  year!</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="small;"><span style="black;">God is great!</span></span></p>
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		<title>Being Available</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 14:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sean Michael Murphy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our small group is in the midst of reading Dave&#8217;s book and are really into it!  The chapter on &#8220;availability&#8221; spoke volumes to all of us.  So, we have been praying everyday and asking the question &#8220;God, I am available; how can I serve someone today?&#8221;  Well, needless to say, God is faithful and he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our small group is in the midst of reading Dave&#8217;s book and are really into it!  The chapter on &#8220;availability&#8221; spoke volumes to all of us.  So, we have been praying everyday and asking the question &#8220;God, I am available; how can I serve someone today?&#8221;  Well, needless to say, God is faithful and he has answered our prayers everyday and then answered them in a bigger than expected way.  What I mean by that is our small group had the privilege of providing two different families in the Winton Terrace area Thanksgiving dinners.  One family we took food over on a Wednesday night to a single mom and 5 children.  The mom wanted to prepare the meal herself and requested all the needed ingredients to make a Thanksgiving meal.  She wanted the meal to be a way of bringing her extended family together because she lost her mother recently. She was murdered this past June.  To make matters even worse, the mother that was shot and killed was holding this woman&#8217;s 2 year old son (the 2 year old&#8217;s grandmother).  In addition, two other children of hers were present and witnessed this terrible murder.  This all sounds surreal, but it is true because I have staff members who are serving this family and attending to some of their needs.  Fortunately, this mom was open to prayer and we got the privilege of praying with her and her children that Wednesday evening.</p>
<p>The second family we served was a single mom with 6 precious children ranging from 7 years to 7 months  We took fully cooked meal to her on Thanksgiving morning.  She too allowed us to pray for her.  The small children were so receptive to prayer; we joined hands and prayed in our little circle. The mom specifically asked for prayer to pass her driver&#8217;s test.  When we finished praying, the little 4 year old tugged on my shirt and gleefully said, &#8220;My daddy&#8217;s out of jail now.&#8221;  The mom laughed very nervously in response to her child&#8217;s statement. What a heart break!</p>
<p>We did not leave either place feeling good about what we had done, instead we felt overwhelmed by the needs of our community and asked ourselves, what else can we do?  Taking a few meals is just not enough!<br />
Of course, we will continue to lift the families up and many others just like them and also continue to ask God what else can we do.  Our small group is meeting again this coming Wednesday to walk through another chapter of the Outward Focused Life book.  We know God has a plan for our group and we are praying that we pay close attention to His voice as we enter into this busy holiday season.</p>
<p>We are grateful for your prayers!<br />
Annette (and Mike)</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 19:10:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>stevebowen</dc:creator>
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What an amazing time on Saturday. Our &#8216;receive turkey dinner crew&#8217; were sorting dinners at 8am at 9:30am they received, checked and repacked 150 dinners that were dropped off for the 10am outreach.
At ten am 350ish people showed up&#8230; with their dinners. The buzz in the place was off the chart&#8230;The first timers were nervous, [...]]]></description>
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<p>What an amazing time on Saturday. Our <em>&#8216;receive turkey dinner crew&#8217; </em>were sorting dinners at 8am at 9:30am they received, checked and repacked 150 dinners that were dropped off for the 10am outreach.</p>
<p>At ten am 350ish people showed up&#8230; with their dinners. The buzz in the place was off the chart&#8230;The first timers were nervous, asking the,<em> &#8216;What are we going to do? Wow do we do this? Where are we going? Whatz up?&#8217;</em> They were directed to the three tables where they could choose their location, grab a map, a tips sheet and a name tag. We then all gathered in the main room&#8230;</p>
<p>We reminded people about the two great commands&#8230;<em>Love God with all&#8230;and Love your neighbor as self</em>&#8230;we connected the thought to Heb 13:15-17  &#8230;worship and serving others gladdens the Fathers heart&#8230; They go hand in hand, and when they collide &#8230;God things can happen.</p>
<p>We worshiped, prayed, picked up our connect cards and <em>&#8216;we&#8217;ve been here&#8217;</em> door stickers and headed out.</p>
<p>Stories are now coming in. People at the right door at the right time. Mom&#8217;s weeping. Kids excited and many, many people receiving encouragement through prayer. One guy was so moved that he knelt down beside his boxed dinner to receive prayer.</p>
<p><strong>Here are two stories:</strong><br />
At one house there was a woman, her daughter and sister, both about 8 y.o. They were so incredibly happy that we had food for them. She hugged all 5 of us several times, allowed us to pray for her, hugged us all again. After we left we could hear them all shouting and singing&#8230;singing something like <em>&#8220;we got turkey dinner&#8221; </em>over and over. It was funny.</p>
<p>The third house was where a lady named Earnestine lives. She was pretty shocked when we said why we&#8217;d come&#8211;<em>as a way of sharing God&#8217;s love.</em> She said it made her feel really special and then she just started to cry. She said it was such a wonderful feeling to know that somebody cared.</p>
<p>I told her that God knew that she needed some encouragement today,and that we&#8217;d been to a lot of houses where no one answered and that we had ended up waaay in the back of the quads where she lived, We are here because He wanted her to feel His love. We prayed for her too. We hugged her a lot. I told her to call the number on the card if she needed someone to talk to. It was obvious that she was struggling with something. I told her about that church up near the entrance&#8230;Destiny.<br />
Anne</p>
<p>At my work, I shared what we were doing this weekend.  A co-worker (Jorge) decided to buy a turkey and trimmings for us to give away.  When we were near the end, I picked a dinner up and said <em>&#8220;OK God, this is Jorge&#8217;s dinner&#8221;</em>.  As I was walking back to the quads, a lady came out of nowhere and asked me if we had food.  I said we had a few dinners left and asked if I could I carry a box to her house?  She seemed very thankful and told me she had three kids (14, 16 and 18).</p>
<p>It turned out that she was originally from Mexico.  What is really cool about that is that I was able to share with her that the guy from my work who paid for a dinner to be delivered was named Jorge and is also from Mexico.</p>
<p>That really touched her and she started crying.  I told her out of all the dinners given out today, God had appointed that one to be hers.  I was able to pray with her and with one of her daughters.  She cried through the whole prayer.  I asked her daughter what her favorite Thanksgiving food was.  She said it was pumpkin pie.  As we looked through the dinner box together, there was not one, but two pumpkin pies.  God cares!</p>
<p>Thanks to all for making this opportunity happen again this year.  See you tomorrow.<br />
Jeff</p>
<blockquote><p>As a friend of mine says, <em>Good deeds creates good will that opens hearts to the good news.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>steve bowen</p>
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		<title>Outward Focused Christmas Gift</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:01:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kande</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi there &#8211; I live in Cleveland and borrowed the book &#8220;The Outward Focused Life&#8221; from a friend (her sister goes to Vineyard). I am pumped on it and decided that for Christmas this year instead of buying another silly dumb gift for my family members&#8230;I am going to give everyone a copy of this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">Hi there &#8211; I live in Cleveland and borrowed the book &#8220;The Outward Focused Life&#8221; from a friend (her sister goes to Vineyard). I am pumped on it and decided that for Christmas this year instead of buying another silly dumb gift for my family members&#8230;I am going to give everyone a copy of this book. SO after giving away 10 or so of these I am praying it will impact the world for the better. I hope to keep my radar on for God to use me from here on out!! Thanks for making Christmas shoppiing a pleasure this year! </span></p>
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